Archive for June, 2009
I knew this guy that had bought a new car recently. For him it was a big deal, because all of the cars he’s ever driven have been used. And when he bought them used, they were at least several years old. He is a very successful businessman, and I always wondered why he didn’t [...]
June 30th, 2009 | Posted in Focus, Goals, Hypnosis, Metaphor | No Comments
I remember when I was a kid there was an amusement park I would go to. It wasn’t a huge amusement park like Disneyland or anything, it was one of those small, local ones that some cities have near beaches. They had a few rides that were ok, if you were a kid. Sometimes I [...]
June 29th, 2009 | Posted in Learning, Memories, Metaphor | No Comments
I was waiting at the station the other day, waiting for a train, and I happened to be sitting next to a guy that was working on some very complicated math problems, or problem. I wasn’t sure if it was a bunch of different problems or if it was on big problem that was somehow [...]
June 28th, 2009 | Posted in Flexibility, Goals, Metaphor | No Comments
I was in this bar the other night, hanging out with some friends. My friends left, but there was an interesting match on TV, so I decided to stay and see how it turned out. I didn’t even know that team was playing but that quickly turned into one of the more important things that [...]
June 27th, 2009 | Posted in Confidence, Conversation Skills, Leadership | No Comments
Once upon a time there was a magic restaurant, run by a retired wizard. He used to be a very powerful wizard, and though he would enjoy playing golf after he retired, but that was kind of boring. So he opened a restaurant. It was kind of a fast food place, but there were also [...]
June 26th, 2009 | Posted in Abundance, Magic, Metaphor, Model of the World, Perception | No Comments
I have a friend that has just been promoted at work. He works for a large, multinational company that designs, makes and sells many different kinds of consumer products. The company has been around for over a hundred years, and is pretty much a household name. My friend was just promoted to the regional distribution [...]
June 25th, 2009 | Posted in Focus, Goals, Life Skills, Metaphor | No Comments
I used to have a friend that was a boxer. He wasn’t a professional or anything, he belonged to a boxing club, and he went to sparring practice a couple times a week. Once a month or so, they would have several boxing matches. There were about twenty or so members, and the first Sunday [...]
June 24th, 2009 | Posted in Brain Power, Confidence, Metaphor | No Comments
The other day I was talking to a friend on the phone. Actually we were talking through Skype. I don’t know if you’ve ever done this before, but it really is a great way to communicate with somebody. Especially if you are the kind of person that likes to make friend with a lot of [...]
June 23rd, 2009 | Posted in Choice, Confidence, Fears, Metaphor, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | No Comments
The other day I was sitting in an airport waiting for a friend of mine. As soon as I realized that I’d forgotten to bring the scrap of paper on which I wrote down her flight number and arrival gate, I had a flash of insight. I used to do something a certain way, and [...]
June 22nd, 2009 | Posted in Conversation Skills, Life Skills, Manipulation | No Comments
So the other day I was hanging out with this new set of friends I had met previously. I had run into them a few nights ago in a local bar, and we started talking about various things that you usually talk about in bars with strangers. The conversation steered it’s way around to baseball, [...]
June 21st, 2009 | Posted in Conversation Skills, Flexibility, Hypnosis, Language | No Comments