Archive for August, 2009
Once upon a time, there was this guy. He was a normal, every day guy, and the kind you usually run into in the grocery store, or at the cleaners picking up your shirts. The kind of guy who you see on a regular basis, but if you saw him outside of the usual places, [...]
August 31st, 2009 | Posted in Communication Skill, Confidence, Conversation Skills, Metaphor, Stories | No Comments
And now for something completely different. I know of a method, that I recalled for some reason this morning while I was out on my daily walk, which is a near guaranteed method to make money at the racetrack. I say near guaranteed because if you don’t actually make money, you won’t actually lose that [...]
August 30th, 2009 | Posted in Life Skills, Resources, Techniques | No Comments
Once upon a time there was a little cat. A little too old to be called a kitten, but not quite a full-fledged cat. Kind of on the border between kitten-hood and cat-hood, whatever that means. He was still trying to figure out the difference between hunting for his own food, and chasing for the [...]
August 29th, 2009 | Posted in Fears, How to Sell, Metaphor | No Comments
I was talking to a friend the other day, not really a friend, more like an acquaintance. Not one of those people that you look forward to being around, more like somebody that you are around because of mutually shared circumstances. They aren’t so bad that you dread meeting them, but there really isn’t that [...]
August 28th, 2009 | Posted in Abundance, Appreciation, Beliefs, Flexibility | No Comments
I was having lunch with a friend recently, a friend that I hadn’t seen in quite a while. It is one of those friendships that you can pick up where you left off, sometimes after a few years even. Other friendships are different. With those, you need to constantly give them attention or they will [...]
August 27th, 2009 | Posted in Communication Skill, Conversation Skills, Life Skills | No Comments
Once upon a time, there were some friends. They lived in the forest, and they had a fairly easy life. They were all chipmunks, and because they were chipmunks they were very aware of the effect that the cycle of the seasons had on their lives. They couldn’t just go down to the supermarket whenever [...]
August 26th, 2009 | Posted in Metaphor, Stories | No Comments
If you’ve ever had to give a public speech, you know how incredibly nerve wracking it can get. I remember I once had to give a best man speech/toast at my brothers wedding. I kept drinking glass after glass of wine with seemingly no effect. Even worse is when you get tapped all of a [...]
August 25th, 2009 | Posted in Building Self Esteem, Charisma, Communication Skill, Conversation Skills, Public Speaking Fear, Public Speaking Tips, public speaking | No Comments
It has long been recognized by many guru’s writers and sages throughout the centuries that the most certain to create the future you’d like is to manage the thoughts you are having now. Emerson wrote that is what he thinks about, most of the time. Napoleon Hill wrote that all great accomplishments of man have [...]
August 24th, 2009 | Posted in Brain Power, Focus, Habits | No Comments
Have you ever done something that you later regretted, or at the very least wish you would have done things differently? Ok, stupid question. We all have. I usually do stuff on a daily basis that I later regret, or at least wish I had done differently. Said thank you a little bit more loudly, [...]
August 23rd, 2009 | Posted in Conversation Skills, Flirting, Habits | No Comments
If you’ve ever found yourself in a conversation, and felt that uncomfortable silence, you know that coming up with something interesting to say on the spur of the moment can be very difficult. When you combine two people feeling that same lack of conversational insight at the same time, and you have the recipe for [...]
August 22nd, 2009 | Posted in Building Self Esteem, Communication Skill, Conversation Skills | No Comments