Reality Reconstruction

I’m Not Going To Tell You To Read This Article

The Milton Model is a fantastic set of language patterns that you can easily use to persuade and influence others through simple conversations. Today’s pattern is called “I’m Not Going To Tell You,” and is very simple, yet very powerful, as it can set up the right frame of mind in your listener for an effective persuasive communication.

When you say, “I’m not going to tell you,” the listener goes into a quick mini trance. Since you say you aren’t going to tell them anything, their mind switches off its conscious critic, or judge of what is being said. Whenever we are listening to somebody speak, unless it’s a close friend or family member, we are at least on some level, questioning everything they say to make sure it’s valid and not dangerous. This usually happens subconsciously, and when people are violating any imagined safety, we usually get an “icky” feeling when speaking with them.

When you say “I’m not going to tell you,” however, the implication is that it is completely up to the listener to accept or reject the next idea, and that takes the pressure off, and the listener switches into a kind of “what if” thinking that allows them to consider other possibilities

Some examples:

I’m not going to tell you to participate in this investment seminar.

I’m not going to tell you to lose weight with exercise.

I’m not going to tell you to practice these patterns on a regular basis with all your friends and watch in amazement at what happens.

You can also follow up your statement with many other language patterns. For example you can talk about some other people that have decided to take your suggested course of action and have had fantastic results.

I’m not going to tell you to exercise to lose weight. Even though many people have found that exercise really is the best way to lose weight, and they’ve saved a lot of stress and money over goofy diet programs and herbal remedies that don’t work, in the end it’s your decision to decide whether or not you’re going to lose weight.

I’m going to tell you to enroll in our online investment seminar until you are absolutely ready. Most of the tens of thousands of people who have made a considerable amount of money through our systems also needed some time to decide whether or not this is the right investment plan for you.

I’m not going to tell you to read this blog on a daily basis, as you are very busy and need to budget your time wisely. Most people who have decided to read this blog daily after deciding that the information presented her is priceless and can earn you a considerable amount of wealth and happiness also have time constraints. So it’s important to choose wisely, here.

I’m not going to tell you to click the “share” button, as that would be a bit presumptuous. I really have no idea if you’ve found this blog interesting, or if you think that the Milton Model can be used in your daily conversation to get fantastic results. I’ll let you decide whether you want to click the “share” button so that others can benefit from this free information as well.

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