Archive for the 'Patience' Category
Roots Have you ever been looking forward to a nice, easy, Saturday afternoon, doing nothing but reading the paper and watching whatever happens to be on TV, only to have your most well thought out plans for laziness destroyed by a friend in need? Rides to the airport, helping somebody clean out their garage, and [...]
April 27th, 2010 | Posted in Flexibility, Metaphor, Model of the World, Patience, Perception, Stories | No Comments
Endless Horizons I have a friend that lives in Korea. He’s never been to any other countries, and he told me the country he’d like to visit most is the United States. Not move there to live or anything, just to visit. I asked him why, and he gave me a rather peculiar answer, but [...]
March 29th, 2010 | Posted in Covert Persuasion, Fears, Flexibility, Focus, Metaphor, Model of the World, NLP Tips, Patience | No Comments
When I was a kid, there lived a scary old woman on my block. The kids would get together and tell stories of why we thought she was so scary. Maybe it was because she was a secret witch, or maybe it was because she secretly captured children and ate them. Although we could never [...]
August 8th, 2009 | Posted in Patience, Perception | No Comments
Once upon a time there was an elephant. He was an adolescent elephant, but he had been separated from his pack. He was out playing with several friends of his, and had gotten lost. The whole elephant group was on their way on their yearly migration pattern. This young elephant was at the age where [...]
July 12th, 2009 | Posted in Metaphor, Patience, Perception | No Comments
I was riding the train home from the mall this evening. The weather was kind of dreary, and the digital camera I was looking for wasn’t in the electronic store that I thought it would be in. I want to buy a video camera so I can start posting video logs. I think that will be [...]
March 9th, 2009 | Posted in Patience, Perception, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | No Comments
One of the most common emails I receive from people that have benefited from reading my articles is how it helps to be able to see things differently in life. People can really begin to realize the abundance of life when you simply look around at the things that you normally see in a new light. Viewing things from a different perspective is [...]
March 7th, 2009 | Posted in Patience, Perception | No Comments
I have a friend who is a rice farmer. He tells me about all the different things that you need to do in order to prepare for a decent rice harvest. In come cultures there are even special festivals and holidays designed to help people in this manner. There are different machines, several different stages of [...]
March 2nd, 2009 | Posted in Appreciation, Patience | No Comments
I was flipping through the channels recently, and I came across one of those medical dramas. You know the kind, where they shift between the tension between the doctors and nurses, orderlies, and patients. It’s interesting how no matter what jobs people find themselves in, they will always come up with the same kinds of [...]
February 24th, 2009 | Posted in Conversation Skills, Flexibility, Focus, Patience, Perception | No Comments
Today in my neighborhood, the weather is unseasonably warm. Which is nice, because it’s still winter (or at least it was when I wrote this, now.) It’s nice to have a warm day every now and then when you don’t expect it. It breaks up the monotony of the coldness that I’m used to when [...]
February 14th, 2009 | Posted in Appreciation, Beliefs, Patience, Perception, Social Skills | 1 Comment
The other day I was riding my bike down to the supermarket. I was only going to pick up a couple of things. Dozen eggs, loaf of bread, maybe some peanut butter. I was trying to remember what it was that I was after when a car served just ahead of me, almost knocking me [...]
February 8th, 2009 | Posted in Focus, Patience, Perception, Release | No Comments