Archive for the 'Social Anxiety' Category
Pistols At Dawn I was talking to a friend of mine yesterday, and I noticed something interesting about her speech. She had always spoken like that, but I hadn’t talked to her in quite a while. Last time we spoke was before I had become interested in language, having read several books on linguistics and [...]
April 18th, 2010 | Posted in Beliefs, Language, Metaphor, Model of the World, NLP Tips, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | 1 Comment
If you are single, then you know how incredibly difficult and frustrating it can be to navigate the uncertain waters of dating and seduction. Before we start, let me say that I’m not using seduction in any underhanded or manipulative sense. Whenever you are interacting with another person in hopes of eliciting any kind of [...]
October 28th, 2009 | Posted in Communication Skill, Confidence, Conversation Skills, Love, Magic, Shyness, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | 1 Comment
The other day I was talking to a friend on the phone. Actually we were talking through Skype. I don’t know if you’ve ever done this before, but it really is a great way to communicate with somebody. Especially if you are the kind of person that likes to make friend with a lot of [...]
June 23rd, 2009 | Posted in Choice, Confidence, Fears, Metaphor, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | No Comments
I was out for my morning walk this morning, and I passed by an elementary school on my way. They were having a band practice, but it looked like the only people that were practicing were the clarinet players. They were all lined up against the fence, facing out towards the street. It sounded like [...]
May 2nd, 2009 | Posted in Confidence, Conversation Skills, Fears, Shyness, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | No Comments
Have you ever wanted something, but weren’t exactly sure how to get it? Like you had this thing in mind, and you knew that you really wanted this, but you really have any clue about how to even begin to go after this, and make this yours? I read this one book on persuasion that [...]
April 1st, 2009 | Posted in Focus, Goals, Shyness, Social Anxiety | 1 Comment
I had a friend once who was telling about his brother in law. His brother in law was the kind of guy that didn’t really talk much, but you had this feeling that there was something really deep inside. Like when you were to look at this person, you were to get this feeling that [...]
March 31st, 2009 | Posted in Appreciation, Confidence, Conversation Skills, Flexibility, Relationships, Shyness, Social Anxiety | No Comments
I was waiting downtown in the hospital recently. It wasn’t the emergency section of the hospital, it was the place where people needed to see a doctor for things that weren’t life threatening. I was holding a number, one of those numbers that you grab like when you go to the post office. There was a [...]
March 26th, 2009 | Posted in Confidence, Conversation Skills, Shyness, Social Anxiety | 1 Comment
I was riding the train home from the mall this evening. The weather was kind of dreary, and the digital camera I was looking for wasn’t in the electronic store that I thought it would be in. I want to buy a video camera so I can start posting video logs. I think that will be [...]
March 9th, 2009 | Posted in Patience, Perception, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | No Comments
I have a friend that is several years older than me. I like to hang out with him, if only to listen to his stories. He is a great story teller. I don’t know if you’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting somebody, so that when you listen to this person, you can just sit [...]
February 16th, 2009 | Posted in Appreciation, Sharing, Social Anxiety | No Comments
I ran into a friend the other day on the train. I didn’t notice her at first, because she looked different. You know when you see somebody you are pretty sure that you know, but it takes a few moments for you to remember exactly where you know them from? This was one of those [...]
February 12th, 2009 | Posted in Confidence, Conversation Skills, Fears, Shyness, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | No Comments