NEXT! The other day I was talking to a friend of mine from high school about this problem that she’s been having with her next-door neighbor and her daughter. She thinks that because they are not as quiet as they used to be, then that means that something has happened, and she is taking it [...]
April 21st, 2010 | Posted in Decisions, Metaphor, Model of the World, Social Skills, Stories | 1 Comment
Full Speed Ahead It’s funny the way things work out sometimes. There are all kinds of stories about how some character spends their whole life running away from something only to find it was what they needed all along. They just needed to see it in a fresh light. Or the familiar story of somebody [...]
February 27th, 2010 | Posted in Decisions, Focus, Goals, Habits | No Comments
Should I Stay Or Should I Go? The other day I was talking to a friend of mine over a cup of coffee. We had met while we were out shopping, not really met, more like bumped into each other. We both had a few minutes to spare, and there happened to be a coffee [...]
February 11th, 2010 | Posted in Decisions, Flexibility, Goals, Learning, Life Skills | 1 Comment
Dumpster Diving Once there were these two crows. They were just hanging out, minding their own business, waiting for some free food. They had recently noticed that a new set of vending machines had opened up next to the entrance to a mall, and next to the vending machines was a set of trashcans. The [...]
January 14th, 2010 | Posted in Choice, Decisions, Flexibility | No Comments
Man – Know Thyself Last week I went to a book signing at a local bookstore. Some guy was going to sign some books, and give some kind of lecture. I hadn’t planned on going, but a friend of mine dragged me along. I think there is a girl that works there that he would [...]
December 3rd, 2009 | Posted in Beliefs, Metaphor, Model of the World, Reality | No Comments
Who’s In Charge Of Your Brain? I was listening to this lady on a talk show the other day. Apparently she is well known best selling author of several books. I was doing other stuff, so I wasn’t really watching, more like listening in the background. Every time they said something interesting, I would pause [...]
November 21st, 2009 | Posted in Choice, Communication Skill, Confidence, Decisions | No Comments
Which Do You Choose? Which would you rather have, a big juicy hamburger, or a cracker with some peanut butter slapped on top? How about a nice two-week relaxing vacation on the beaches of Hawaii versus a free coupon worth on rental from your local video store? Or how about a date with Megan Fox [...]
November 17th, 2009 | Posted in Choice, Covert Persuasion, Decisions, How to Sell, Sales, Sales Skills | No Comments
A long time ago, in some basement laboratory, a bunch of physicists and mathematicians were trying to solve a particularly difficult problem. They were looking at some subatomic particles, and how they interacted with one other. They had already figured out the math and the physics behind the interactions, and could accurately predict the behavior [...]
October 17th, 2009 | Posted in Metaphor, Model of the World | No Comments
I remember a few years ago I bought a condo. The first thing I wanted to do before moving in was to repaint the interior. So naturally, I was overwhelmed by the eighteen million different shades of white available at home depot. So I chose some flavor of white I thought would be appropriate, and [...]
July 25th, 2009 | Posted in Decisions, Dreams, Goals | No Comments
When I was a kid I had this kit that I bought from Radio Shack. It was a 75 in 1 do it yourself electronic kit. It had a large circuit board, and it had a booklet that showed you how to hook up seventy five different simple electronic circuits from strobe lights, to radio [...]
July 13th, 2009 | Posted in Choice, Confidence, Perception | No Comments