Pistols At Dawn I was talking to a friend of mine yesterday, and I noticed something interesting about her speech. She had always spoken like that, but I hadn’t talked to her in quite a while. Last time we spoke was before I had become interested in language, having read several books on linguistics and [...]
April 18th, 2010 | Posted in Beliefs, Language, Metaphor, Model of the World, NLP Tips, Social Anxiety, Social Skills | 1 Comment
Can You Repeat That Please? I remember once I played a game with a group of highly educated, professional ESL students I was teaching. I’ve heard this game called “Chinese whispers,” or the “telephone game,” or other things. I even remember playing it once or twice as a kid. And even with a group of [...]
April 12th, 2010 | Posted in Evolution, Flexibility, Focus, Language, Learning, Metaphor | No Comments
Captain, That Is Illogical Here’s an interesting mind experiment. Ready? Here is the situation; you have four cards, with the following faces showing. D, 7, 3, F. You are told that each card has a number on one side, and a letter on the other. Now you are given a statement: On every card that [...]
April 9th, 2010 | Posted in Body Language, Body Language and Flirting, Brain Power, Conversation Skills, Covert Persuasion, Evolution, Language, Model of the World | No Comments
Teach An Old Dog New Tricks? The other night, I decided to go out for a walk. I recently moved to new part of town, and decided to go and check things out. The sun has been setting later and later recently, and I had gotten off a little earlier than normal from work, so [...]
April 7th, 2010 | Posted in Beliefs, Language, Learning, NLP Tips | No Comments
Would You Mind Passing The Guacamole? Once I had to meet a friend of mine at the last minute to play a round of golf. I was at this party the week prior, and one of my buddies was talking about how he’d recently started playing, and we should play sometime together. He’d asked me [...]
March 5th, 2010 | Posted in Communication Skill, Conversation Skills, Covert Persuasion, How to Sell, Hypnosis | No Comments
The Master Key One of the advantages of being human, and not some other animal is that we have the ability to imagine different scenarios in our minds. Some evolutionary psychologists argue that was one of the driving forces that led to human, rather than some other animal developing a big brain. In all animals, [...]
January 31st, 2010 | Posted in Communication Skill, Confidence, Conversation Skills, Evolution, Life Skills | No Comments
Beware Of Equality So the other day I was waiting in line at the movies, which was surprising. Not that I was at the movies, but that I was waiting in line. I don’t particularly like crowded movie theaters, so I usually try and go during off peak hours. One reason is I always seem [...]
January 6th, 2010 | Posted in Flexibility, Habits, Language | No Comments
House Of Mirrors I was reading this book the other day. It was a non-fiction book, one that makes stop every couple of pages and think, or maybe take notes. The guy that writes this has this way of making you really reflect on what you’re reading, now. The book is about language, and anytime [...]
December 23rd, 2009 | Posted in Brain Power, Flexibility, Hypnosis, Perception, Reality | No Comments
We’re the Same, You And Me Recently I’ve been reading this fascinating book by Steven Pinker, called “The Language Instinct.” If you are at all interested in language, psychology, or how the human brain is structured, you can’t go wrong with this book. In it he treats language as an instinct, rather than a learned [...]
December 21st, 2009 | Posted in Communication Skill, Evolution, Fears, Language | No Comments
I remember when I was a kid, I was in boy scouts. Our troop went to a beach for a weekend campout. The campgrounds were up on a bluff overlooking the beach, with fire rings and places to set up tents. One thing I remember the most was that there was this new kid. And [...]
September 13th, 2009 | Posted in Communication Skill, Conversation Skills, How to Sell | No Comments